一个妇人的丈夫

已经有两周了，我们为了"一个妇人的丈夫"的经文讨论不休。不知道到底是"只作一个妇人的丈夫"，还是"只作过一个妇人的丈夫"。求主带领我能理解神的心意。其实我不想被认为是一个"律法主义者"或"没有爱心"。

 

【提前3:2】 作监督的，必须无可指责，只作一个妇人的丈夫，有节制，自守，端正。乐意接待远人，善于教导。

A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

The Bishop, then, is to be a man of good name, the husband of one wife, self-controlled, serious-minded, having respect for order, opening his house freely to guests, a ready teacher;

那麽，监督必须是无可指可摘的，只有过一个妻子的丈夫，有节制，应慎重，端庄，好客，善於教导；

 

【提前3:12】 执事只要作一个妇人的丈夫，好好管理儿女和自己的家。

Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his children and his household well.

Let Deacons be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their houses well.

执事应当只作过一个妻子的丈夫， 善於管理自己子女和家庭，

 

【提前5:9】 寡妇记在册子上，必须年纪到六十岁，从来只作一个丈夫的妻子，

Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man.

No widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over sixty, has been faithful to her husband,

Let no woman be numbered among the widows who is under sixty years old, and only if she has been the wife of one man,

录用一个寡妇，年纪不要少过六十岁，且要只做过一个丈夫的妻子，